He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.  Of course, the sand filled up everything else He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two glasses of wine from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things; your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions; things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else; the small stuff.

If you put the sand into the jar first , " he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. Do one more run down the ski slope. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first; the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the wine represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for you to take time off for a couple of glasses of wine with a family member or a friend."

So, where lies your priority, with the golf balls or - with the sand?

Is this true ! Do people realize this!!

and especially its for 'U'!

i was looking some inspirational articles to lift my spirits and  i found this i donno how its going to be influencing me !!But atleast its better if someone who read this realizes the crux of life!!

and did anyone say i am an  altruist???

Male height was found to be negatively correlated with self-reported global jealousy, whereas female height was curvilinearly related to jealousy, with average-height women reporting the lowest levels of jealousy Female height was negatively correlated with jealousy in response to physically attractive, physically dominant, and high-social-status rivals; in addition, quadratic effects revealed that approximately average-height women tend to be less jealous of physically attractive rivals but more jealous of rivals with “masculine” characteristics of physical dominance and social status.

Wie dacht dat er de laatste maanden amper getikt werd door mijn vingers heeft mis :-). We zijn aan de slag met een groot maar erg leuk project 'Men's World'. De bedoeling is enigzins de tekortkoming van 'mannenzaken' of mannensite's volledig in te willigen. Een professionele aanpak met een echte redactie uiteraard. Goede en interessante artikels vragen veel meer dan vlug want knip en plakwerk. Er is ook behoefte voor mannen om zich te positioneren. Voor vrouwen bestaan deze sites al even, waarom dan niet voor mannen ? Of laten we misschien voorzichtig zeggen, vernieuwde en ruimdenkende mannen.

Mensworld heeft als doel de ultieme Nederlandstalige referentie voor mannen te worden. Met een mix van nieuws, informatie en entertainment bieden wij een plek aan de actieve man op zoek naar een eigen online community. Veel meer dus dan een blog met wat foto's van babes.

Een eerste evaluatie na enkele maanden leverde ons al verrassende relevante zoektermen op in onze thema site. Alvast een indicatie dat de behoeften niet gering zijn. De officiële lancering wordt verwacht dit najaar.

Taboes

Eén van onze sub doelstellingen is het bespreekbaar maken van taboes onder mannen. Wie dacht er er geen waren komt bedrogen uit !

Men's World is onderverdeeld in 4 sterke thema's:

www.mensworld.be/grow/

www.mensworld.be/power/

www.mensworld.be/relax/

www.mensworld.be/brainfood/

Als laatste de rubriek media

www.mensworld.be/media/

Binnenkort gaan enkele fotoshoots door, het gezicht van Men's World zal worden bepaald. Er komen ook nog interviews. Wie iets interessants te melden heeft of ziet zitten om vrijblijvend mee te werken verzoek ik contact met ons op te nemen. Ideeën, bemerkingen ? Laat maar horen !

Who enjoy more????

Son asks father: when making love, which enjoy more? Man or woman?

Father answer: Ofcos Women la

Son: Why?

Father: when you dig your nose, which feels better the nose or your finger?

Son:……………………..

Condom

Son: Why men dun like to use condom

Father: Do u wear gloves to dig your nose?

Son:……………………..

Period

Son: why we shouldn’t make love when the girl got period?

Father: Do u dig your nose when it is bleeding?

Son:……………………..

Rape

Son: Women dun like to be force on hor....?

Father: Do you like your nose to be dig by stranger from the streets?

Son:……………………..

If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat race ... you're a male chauvinist.

If you stay home and do the housework...you're a poofter.

If you work too hard...there's never any time for her.

If you don't work enough...you're a good-for-nothing lazy prick.

If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay...this is exploitation.

If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay.....you should get off your lazy ass and find something better.

If you get a promotion ahead of her...that is favoritism.

If she gets a job ahead of you......it's equal opportunity.

If you mention how nice she looks......it's sexual harassment.

If you keep quiet..........it's male indifference.

If you cry............you're a wimp.

If you don't....................you're an insensitive bastard.

If you make a decision without consulting her.........you're a chauvinist.

If she makes a decision without consulting you......she's a liberated woman.

If you ask her to do something she doesn't enjoy....... that's domination.

If SHE asks you.........it's a favour.

If you appreciate the female form and frilly underwear......you're a pervert.

If you don't..............you're gay.

If you like a woman to shave her legs and keep in shape..............you're sexist.

If you don't.................you're unromantic.

If you try to keep yourself in shape................you're vain.

If you don't................you're a slob.

If you buy her flowers.............you're after something.

If you don't....................you're not thoughtful.

If you're proud of your achievements........you're full of shit.

If you're not ....................you're not ambitious.

If she has a headache............she's tired.

If you have a headache.............you don't love her anymore.

If you want it too often.........you're oversexed.

If you don't................there must be someone else.

Men die first because they want to.

To blame for all those  guys who are still single is because of the girls  who are not ready to mingle!!!!!How many of the girls around us could jus make a one single step ahead of the threshhold and say i will be with u, when they still know that theres alot in offering to them so explicitly???

To make it worse even the more explicit we boys are in starting a relationship the more conspicious the girls become in saying thats just friendship!!!!

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The flip side rubbing the salt is the weak hearted guys who can alsways fall mentally sick of girls!(rarefication if  girls feel that , and how rarely do they get rejected???, like a poor friend of mine gets rejected each time he talks to a girl)

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With such wonderful life of their own gifted by god how could girls  be so cruel in restraining themselves and also the boys in jus the name of one silly Synonym called friendship and isolating from relationship???

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Ha Now come the bloopers each and every girl does and should stop soon.

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Behaving as if  they(she) arent aware that the boy whose been after her is jus looking a for a small  silly deal of friendship!!! hey ofcourse icant be overly fanatic by sayin every friendship is a relationship but an advanceto  relation can be distinguished simply   . Its as simple as that.

Knowing that a guy was after him the girl should make it explicitly clear that she has or hasnt any feelings towards him bluntly ofcourse if not straightly .Its time for boys not to overreact for that sayin that i am not in LOVE dont act as if u are a LAS VEGAS beauty.We jus should admire her reality and the good virtue of her saying very much early before u turn into an addict.See if u could know it early guyz u could make the move to the next chic, see we guys arent so emotional right and shouldnt be , if not her its the other .

The compendium is simple girls should let know that they arent intereted to the guy whose falling behind her in the initial stage before he gets his mind stuck on u,if ever u act good and friendly stil knowin that the guy has something else in mind thats a greatest SIN, u are doing.Because the boys arent  created for a cause to woo girls , and girls can enjoy that but not to the zenith.

Guys stop falling too much for girls and the leeser u  get for emotional love in a girl the more u could be happy with her, but its difficult not all of us be as cruel as a ****** jus playing  physical and we too have a heart to care for some but donnmake it too rigid on a single chick, and start a relationship anticipating to loose after all there are more guys competing for a single girl and havin the less  restrained  heart  its lil difficult i know but  girls surely enjoy  this status having an edge in hiding everytjing perfectly!!!!!!!!!!

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Dedicated to all my firends who are seriously looking for a relationship much more inspired after watching HAPPY DAYS movie and feel deprecated without a girl in their life as their fault

this is vasu Signing off, and writing this artilce inspired from the situations of  Karthik and Vikas

Then deep inside the magazine comes the full photoshoot by Jack Harrison and I've got to say (and I've said this before about Harrison) he's got the shots bang off. Six pages and 13 shots with every shot capturing the perfect form of Karen dressed as per the cover of this issue. This is Men's World so there is no pink but pink is not needed. Believe me, you have to buy this magazine if you collect Karen White.

This issue also features 19 year old Poppy Coles and Jo Guest with her friend Laura Singer.

In stock and priced to sell at £16.99

The first one which comes to my mind is the Thumbs-Up (a Coke product) casting Akshay Kumar. He runs over the terrace and jumps down from 8th floor and dives straight in front of the Thumbs-up van and grabs a bottle. That was a marvelous effort to get Thumbs-up, but the question is- Is it that difficult to get thumbs-up?

Taste the thunder: Akshay Kumar goes on top of a lighthouse by the beach, sways to call the rains, uses the Thumbs-Up bottle as a lightning conductor, and converts lightning to a cold drink. Too many scientific principles violated; why not drink the sea water instead???

Voltas AC: I usually dislike ads which appeal to patriotic jingoism (running Indian for Aditya Birla Group, acquiring East India Co. for Rajnigandha). But this one beats all the other such ads. Not only does it violate many scientific principles (AC air stored in a plastic jar remaining cool over the distance and then causing a big draft when the lid is open); but also punch-lines like “India ka AC; Korea ka nai” sound very cheapo?????????

Hi Handsome: The Emami fairness cream for men was dumb (why go to a girl’s hostel to get the girlie cream; why not buy it from the market?); but it is one of the worst ads because of its excessive repetition during the India-England series

Thums Upp

add in regional:The thums up add with mahesh babu is so sad, and my 5 year old neigbours boy ended up to the conclusion that people will be dissappearing after every one hour by drinking thums up!!!!!!!!(the actual idea was, u every one hour a person is picked up to meeet mahesh)!!!!!!and the worst thing he said to his mother when she was scolding for something is ,i will get a thums up and drinkit and dissappear from you!!!!!!!!!!

Let me tell you a few quick mini-stories about
guys I've known who were UN-cool.

  One friend I used to have LOVED to argue with
people. He would start arguments about anything
and always take the opposite perspective on every
topic. He did this with women all the time too. I
think he felt like he was coming across as smart
when he argued. Guess what? Women hated it, and
ran as soon as he started in. His guy friends
hated it too. He was UN-cool because his
insecurity was so strong, that he had to argue to
get attention.

  Another friend I have always tries to do nice
things and favors for women he likes. As soon as
he meets a woman he likes, he tries to find
something he can do for her. Of course, he then
gets upset when the woman doesn't return the
feelings of affection... and he acts upset and
"taken advantage of". This, of course, makes women
run away. As you can probably guess, he's trying
to manipulate women with favors. And women resent
him for it. Women don't think he's cool, and they
avoid him.

  I know one guy who loves to tell women how
beautiful they are, buys them drinks and dinners,
and pursues them with the "You're the greatest
thing in the world and I'm going to chase you
around and try to buy your attention". And even
though he's doing a lot of "nice" things for the
women he's interested in, he can't keep one around
for more than a date or two. Even his guy friends
think that he needs to calm down and act more
"cool" in general.

  Now, all three of the guys I've mentioned above
have different problems... but the way I see it,
they're all strangely related.

  Here are a few more quick stories about guys I
know who are "cool".

  One guy I know always has girls around him. In
fact, I don't think I've ever seen him WITHOUT at
least one girl with him. Usually he has three or
four girls with him... and sometimes up to 10 or
12. He always makes fun of the girls, teases them,
and treats them like good friends who he's
comfortable enough to bust on. He's not rich, he
doesn't buy things for women, and he doesn't kiss
up to them. He DOES, on the other hand, make it
his business to know where the "cool" places are
in town, where to go out, and who to call for the
"inside track" on where the hot spots are. Then he
shows up at the door to these hot spots with five
women. EVERYONE who knows him thinks of him as a
"cool" guy.

  I have another friend that is really amazing
with women. But he does something that's rather
unusual when he's around women. He kind of IGNORES
them when he first meets them. If he's out with
friends, and one of them introduces a female
friend to him, he'll shake her hand and say "hi",
then TURN AWAY and go back to whatever he was
doing. Somehow, the women that are around him
always want to talk to HIM. And all the guys he
knows think of him as one of the coolest guys
around.

  Finally, I have one friend who literally says
things to women like, "You probably wouldn't like
me. I don't really have relationships with women.
Our relationship will probably go no further than
the physical..." . He's
blunt, direct, and honest about whatever is on his
mind. He doesn't chase women, buy them things, or
smother them with compliments... and yet, they
love him. And he has a crew of guy friends who all
love him and think he's one of the "coolest" guys
in the world.

  So what is it that separates the "cool" guys
from the "uncool" guys?

  What is "cool"?

  What is it that makes a few rare people the
kind of people that EVERYONE wants to be around?

  What is it about UN-cool guys that repels other
people, and makes women run away?

  And what is it about this element that I'm
calling "cool" that makes guys who have it attract
more women than they can handle?

If you're dealing with an attractive woman,
then you must remember that you're not the first
guy who has ever been interested in her.

  In fact, she's probably approached all the time
by guys, and she probably has a lot of experience
with guys who want to "get involved" with her.

  This is one of those funny situations that
works in kind of a backwards way (not unlike many
other aspects of male/female relationships,
actually).

  If you meet an attractive girl, you can be
pretty sure of a few things:

1) She gets approached by men, one way or another,
all the damn time.

2) 99% of the men that she meets and dates wind up
following her around like puppies... either from
the beginning or eventually.

3) When a guy acts "too nice - too soon", she sees
this as a sign of neediness and weakness, and
she's repelled by it.

  I realize that this is going to sound like some
kind of bizarre Zen self-help B.S., but sometimes
you have to push things away from you gently in
order to bring them to you.

  And beautiful women fall into this category.

  At my last couple of Double Your Dating LIVE!
Seminars, I asked a simple question:

  "How do you make someone want something?"

  Have you ever thought about that concept?

  Why is it that people WANT things in the first
place, and how can you actually MAKE someone want
something?

  When you think about the things that YOU want,
and then ask yourself WHY you want those things,
you'll begin to realize why this is such a
profound question.

  Why is it that Coke has dominated the cola
market when we all know that Pepsi wins the taste
tests?

  Why is it that people in Los Angeles buy so
many four-wheel drive SUVs?

  Why is it that some nightclubs keep people
outside in line for hours when there's plenty of
room inside the club?

  Well, I obviously can't go into an in-depth
explanation of why these things are so, but I
think it's obvious that:

1) Most of the things that people "want" aren't
for the most logical reasons.

2) We humans only "want what we don't have"... and
once we get what we want, we quickly get bored.

3) Even knowing that something is readily
available to us makes us lose interest.

  So why such a long explanation?

  Why not just tell you when to call her, what to
say, and what tone to use?

  Because even if you know the exact right words
to say, and the exact right time to say them, the
woman you're talking to will still be able to pick
up what you're REALLY thinking if you don't
understand how and why women become attracted to
men.

  Here are a few ways to make a person want
something:

1) Create a challenge.

2) Give her a little, then lean back.

3) Give her the gift of missing you.

4) Be unpredictable.

  When you create a challenge, you really ENGAGE
a woman's mind and emotions.

  Women don't feel ATTRACTION for men that are
push-over Wuss Bags. Women feel ATTRACTION for men
who are a CHALLENGE.

  When you give a woman a little bit, then lean
back, then you set up a "Hey, I want more of that"
situation.

  If you just keep pouring on the attention and
giving her everything she wants, you'll become
uninteresting.

  When you give a woman the "Gift of missing
you", you realize that for women, thinking about,
missing, and anticipating the next time is often
even more powerful than the actual EXPERIENCE of
"the next time".

  Men often get insecure, and feel that they have
to call and keep an eye on a woman all the time.
This is a huge mistake. It says all the wrong
things.

  When you're UNPREDICTABLE, you do something
that is almost MAGIC... when a man understands how
to make a woman feel ATTRACTION, then he doesn't
do things that are PREDICTABLE, women will tend to
think about him ALL THE TIME.

  Things that are predictable don't require much
thought. They're uninteresting and boring.

  Things that are UNPREDICTABLE, on the other
hand, require a LOT of thought. Unpredictable
things are FASCINATING to people... especially
women.

  What makes a movie lame?

  Predictability.

  What makes a movie great?

  A well-written story that ISN'T predictable.

  Predictability and BORING-NESS are the enemies
of ATTRACTION.

  Here are a few thoughts on the questions you
asked:

1) If you call her the next day, be cool about it.
Don't try to be too "suave", and don't try to set
up another date immediately. Call and say, "Hey,
what's up?" Make a little small talk, then hang
up. Lean back, and she'll be thinking about you
for the next several days (if you didn't act like
a dumb-ass the night before, that is).

2) If you email, keep it light as well. In this
day and age, I find it natural to email or call.

3) Your TONE should be cool, calm, laid back,
busy, and upbeat. Never complain about things,
whine, or act like you're in a bad mood and need
attention.

4) Be very cool about this. Don't act like you
might want to get married within 90 days, or like
you've met the woman of your dreams. Give her some
space, and the gift of missing you.

5) For the first 10 dates or so, don't see her
more than once or twice a week. Stay busy with
your life, and always have things going on.

6) Until you decide that you really like a
particular woman and want to "settle down" with
her, or have a long-term relationship, don't focus
too much energy on the relationship. If you're
dating other women, don't stop. When you focus all
of your energy and time on a woman that you've
just met, it often creeps them out and makes them
run.

  But the REAL key to the situation is that
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. Attraction is a
POWERFUL, EMOTIONAL and PHYSICAL response.

  And, as you might know, when you're feeling a
powerful emotion, it's difficult, or in many
cases, almost impossible to override that emotion
with LOGIC.

  The woman is clearly ATTRACTED to the
"lowlife", but she also knows in her MIND that she
"should" stay with the "stable, nice guy".

  EMOTION beats LOGIC any day of the week when it
comes to attraction and female behavior.

  Being a challenge and being unavailable are
things that TRIGGER the emotion, but once it's
triggered then there's not much that a woman can
do about it.

 .

  So, to answer your question, the reason why
women "choose" unstable losers over stable guys
like you is...

  THEY DON'T CHOOSE AT ALL.

  There is no logical "decision" being made. When
it comes to ATTRACTION, "choosing" doesn't even
come into play.

  If you want women to feel that powerful emotion
called ATTRACTION for you, then you need to learn
how to communicate and behave in the way that
TRIGGERS ATTRACTION.

  Are you with me on this?

  I think that you're on the right track here

 When she came to you to tell you that her
parents didn't approve of you, and you responded
by saying, "I don't care what your parents think,
I'm not here to please them", you effectively made
yourself MORE powerful in her heart AND mind than
even her parents.

  I'm taking a wild guess here, but I'll bet that
when she came to you to tell you this, she was
telling you because she was thinking of breaking
off the relationship, and this was her way of
"introducing" the idea.

  When you responded by saying, "I don't care
what they think", you probably scrambled her
signal a little. She was probably confused, but
MORE IMPORTANTLY, she was EMOTIONALLY ATTRACTED to
you at the same time.

  This combination of confusion, emotional
attraction, and you asserting yourself as more
powerful than her parents because you didn't care,
is almost unstoppable.

  As you say, "Every dating advisor stresses male
confidence".  The more I've thought about this,
the more I realize that the FOUNDATION for
confidence is LACK OF INSECURITY.

  In other words, if you want to be confident,
you have to START by getting over the things that
you're insecure about. Once you do this, you'll
realize that "confidence" isn't really that
important at all.

  Women are generally attracted to men who don't
need APPROVAL from anyone. Call it confidence if
you want, but I think it comes down to becoming
secure in the world and comfortable in your own
skin.  If you're reading this right now, and you
need to get more confidence, then you should take
a minute and read this as well

The woman opens up her bundle of clothes and pulls out the first garment – Amul Macho underwear belonging to her husband. She then starts brushing it, and through her expressions, it is clear that she fancies that the man is still wearing it. The women surrounding her are also taken in by her fantasy, so much so that when she raises a bat-like object (used to thrash the dirt out of clothes), the women actually wince at the thought of the ‘man’ being thrashed like that. The ad ends with the young woman stretching the underwear in her hands, while the super and voiceover conclude, ‘Amul Macho. Crafted for Fantasies’.

 In a recent poll conducted by CNBC-TV18, 49 per cent of those who participated felt that the ad was enjoyable and not obscene, while the rest felt it was vulgar.  “Around 5,000 people took part in that poll, so 49 per cent – virtually an equal amount of people ??????????

What do you feel?????????????Can we take this as enjoyable???????