Secrets to Creating the Life You Want

By Ellen Richter

The Law of Attraction has gotten everybody’s attention lately, and with good reason! It is one of the fundamental laws of the universe and if you live in accordance with the universal laws, your life will flow easily and you will experience prosperity in all areas.

There are some very important keys to using the Law of Attraction successfully and I will share some of them with here.

The most basic beliefs we hold about the universe determine our predominant thoughts, which in turn guide our actions on a conscious and unconscious level. How do you view the universe? Ask yourself. Do you believe there is an unlimited supply of energy and “invisible stuff” as Wallace D. Wallace in “The Science of Getting Rich” talks about? Or do you believe there is a limited supply and you operate from a lack or scarcity mentality? If the latter is true for you then you will feel the need to compete to get what you want rather than create your life as you desire. Re-examine your belief system and immerse yourself in both scientific and spiritual teachings that will help you to view the universe as the unlimited portal that it is. Use EFT or the Sedona Method to help clear your limiting beliefs. When you know there is an unlimited supply available to you, you will focus your energies on creating what you desire.

Next I’d like to talk about resistance. What is it and why is it important to deliberately creating the life of success you desire? Resistance is arguing with the present reality. What is, is. It happened. Accept it and you will be in a state of non-resistance, which is a high vibrational state and a good point of attraction. But go further than that! Understand the Law of Polarity: Everything has two equal and opposing sides. That means that every situation can be viewed as negative or positive, since both sides of that coin always exist. It’s up to you to decide which side you choose to focus on. So even if you can’t see the good in a situation, if you know with certainty that the Law of Polarity exists and therefore there has to be a good side to everything, you can accept what has transpired and perhaps even be grateful for it!  This takes a commitment but is so well worth the practice!

Gratitude. A simple word. A very important word. Define it. Understand it. And most importantly, practice it as often as you can. For when you are in a state of gratitude, you are not only focused on the good and thereby raising your vibration, you are opening the door to receive more of what you want. How? When you are grateful for everything that you already have, you want to give it away, knowing that the universe is abundant and will send more of what you desire right back to you. By giving, you open the door to receiving. Abundance in all its forms is flowing through you. Make a Gratitude list, keep a gratitude journal, be grateful for every “bad” thing that comes to you, reminding yourself of the Law of Polarity. Give away what you most desire yourself. For as you give, you send the message of abundance and you will attract more of what you want to you.

Try it! Remember it! Live it!

Allowance. No not the $10 a week you got as a kid! Allowance as in Allowing things to flow to you. Are you opening the door to allow your desires in? Do you feel you deserve them? Is change uncomfortable for you? To be successful and prosperous in all areas of life you need to be clear of your desires, raise your vibration (gratitude is the best way) and allow them to come into your life. Examine your subconscious beliefs. As you say your affirmations, watch for uncomfortable bodily sensations. This will clue you in to opposing unconscious beliefs that you need to clear in order to manifest what you want. Find a clearing method that works for you.

Replace old limiting beliefs with new empowering ones. Enlist support and believe in the infinite possibilities! The Law of Attraction is always at work. Try applying some of these strategies to make it work for you in the most joyful ways. The universe will support you!

TO YOUR SUCCESS!

Ellen Richter

Reiki Master, Life/Wellness Coach, Psychologist, EFT practitioner, Special Education Teacher and Joyful Creator!

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I have a huge library, and a firm foundation and a heart full of gratitude for my successful life now! What happens when we feel like we are doing all the stuff hearing on the DVD “The secret” and reading in the book and we’re not really getting where we want to be? Is it possible that there is a missing link? Wallace Wattles says in his book, “The science of getting rich.”

“There is a law of Gratitude, and if you are to get the results you seek, it is absolutely necessary that you should observe this law”

So, what is this Law of Gratitude and how does it work? Wattles tell us that it is an application of the law of cause and effect;

“The law of Gratitude is the natural principle that action and reaction are always equal and in opposite directions”
This means that everything we put attention and emotional energy on, want or not want, will eventually show up in our lives. The universe and our subconscious mind don’t know the difference between good or bad, so they treat fear and enthusiasm exactly the same.

Therefore it’s important to be putting positive energy on what we want, and withholding negative energy as fear, doubts or worry on what we don’t want. As we are putting energy on it, we’re placing an order for it.

Gratitude is so important because it is a very high energy of positive vibration. It connects us with Source. Wattles says; You cannot exercise much power without gratitude because it is gratitude that keeps you connected with power. The creative power within us makes us into the image of that to which we give our attention. The grateful mind is constantly fixed upon the best, therefore it will receive the best” So he is saying, if we are grateful about everything, we are focusing on what we want. This is the reason the teachers of the Secret insist that you see your goal as already accomplished, and that you be grateful for it.. NOW! Using gratitude is a powerful way to be sure you’re putting strong energy on the goal. Many believe that there is a limited supply of stuff. This belief leads to competitive thinking, the idea that in order to get what you want, you have to have take it away from someone else. That’s is called lack thinking, and then it’s hard to be grateful when you think there is not enough.

So look at your life and find what works. Focus on that and be grateful for it, everyone has something to be happy about. It’s law that what we focus on grows in our life. What are you focusing on? What you have, or what you don’t have? When you are grateful for what you already have, you open a channel for more to come.
I recommend to do the following exercise daily for about a month.
Buy or make a gratitude journal, and write down all the things you are grateful for to have in your life now. Make sure you have at least 35 items and that you have a few items from every area of your life. Include your relationships, health, career, finances, hobby, and anything else you can be grateful for.

Making the list you may have felt a lot of resistance to some of the people or conditions on that list. That resistance is making it difficult for you to get what you want in life. Take a sheet of paper and write down the things you don’t like. Look at your car that is rusty, your spouse with the bad attitude, the bills that keep coming. Now write down what you’re grateful for about them. For example that you have a car and don’t have to walk, that your spouse is taking care for your needs, the income you have to pay for the benefits of the merchandise and services represented by the bills, when you want to take a shower there is warm water.

One of them, first who arise to us when we read the book for the first time, is the one that says that we must make our work of the possible most perfect form. Pardon by the license, but more perfect does not exist, if it is perfect cannot be more than that, but is an emphatic turn.

The idea behind the phrase is that we must insist on making our task daily, our work, or what it is that feeds to us and dresses us every day, of the best form than we can do it. It is not enough with going to work every day or to fulfil as we pruned with our obligations, we must do it of irreproachable form.

Why?. The answer of Wallace Wattles is simple: we must contribute to improve the quality of the universe. Everything what we do every day, as small as it could be, contributes to acquire value for the universe that surrounds us. If we do it well, we will be improving the energy of the surroundings and it will be arriving to us in form of aids to our dreams.

Everything is tie. Everything is connected. And if our task is excellent, so it will be the answer of our atmosphere towards us. Of this form, Wattles also becomes a source of wealth for all that that follows its postulates exactly. And it makes us transform into positive generators that go and return, that fills to us of satisfaction and causes that our world is a little better every day.

Una de ellas, la primera que nos surge cuando leemos el libro por primera vez, es la que nos dice que debemos hacer nuestro trabajo de la forma más perfecta posible. Perdón por la licencia, pero más perfecta no existe, si es perfecto no puede serlo más, pero es un giro enfático.

La idea detrás de la frase es que debemos empeñarnos en hacer nuestra tarea diaria, nuestro trabajo, o lo que sea que nos alimenta y nos viste cada día, de la forma mejor que tengamos de hacerlo. No basta con ir a trabajar todos los días o cumplir como podamos con nuestras obligaciones, debemos hacerlo de forma irreprochable. Por que? La respuesta de Wallace Wattles es simple: debemos contribuir a mejorar la calidad del universo.

Todo lo que hacemos cada día, por pequeño que sea, contribuye o quita valor al universo que nos rodea. Si lo hacemos bien, estaremos mejorando la energía del entorno y nos irá llegando de regreso esa energía en forma de ayudas a nuestros sueños. Todo está vinculado. Todo tiene relación con todo. Y si nuestra tarea es excelente, también será la respuesta de nuestro ambiente hacia nosotros.

De esta forma, Wattles se convierte también en una fuente de riquezas para todo aquel que siga al pie de la letra sus postulados. Y nos hace transformarnos en generadores de energías positivas que van y regresan, que nos llenan de satisfacción y hacen que nuestro mundo sea un poco mejor cada día.

Perhaps it is possible that we do not have nor the most remote idea of which we want, in many cases but in almost all? If, it is possible. Perhaps it is an analogy of which the Principe of Saint Exupery said: The essential is invisible to the eyes. We would say, the Question that Seems More obvious is Most difficult To respond. Not in vain the psychologists proliferate and psychoanalysts who search our soul in look for that answer. But although there is no a prescription that says to us what mechanism to use for knowing it, we can give some tracks.

First it is to differentiate to want from to wish. The things that I want to not always are those that I desire and vice versa. To want to have something is to want it, simply, so that my mind wants that I have it. To wish it is a less mental feeling, and than it is lived more with the body, with the senses. I at this moment wish a chocolate ice cream, but I do not want for my future a chocolate ice cream, I don´t know if the difference is understood. We want with the mind, we wish with the body, the soul and the heart yet. The Science To become Rich is a mental attitude, is to want but that to wish. And what I want for my future, which I want to have, to have, to enjoy, to be, is something that I must visualize it in my mind, not to mix it with sensations or feelings. Science is mental, so that the mind creates, the heart or desire does not create.

The second is the deep introspection. There is no another way. I said in a post of some days ago that everybody has not been wanting nor truly is prepared to be rich, with all the problems that it can carry. There it is the point where we must be absolutely sincere with we our self. In the generalized case more of the readers of this blog, they will agree with me that when one arrives at certain adult age, is difficult to know what it is really wanted. This is thus so that we have been lived much, have seen many things, have been verified that the life is something so complex and complete, that one really does not know whereupon part of the life to remain, where to put the accent. It is why the sincerity with one is fundamental. Nobody as you is to say what is what you really want, but nobody as you will deceive to you so easily. It is a two-way road. And we must be sincere with ourselves, with whom but?

And the third track is "bloody more", to give an adjective: it is to think about our personal history. The ways that we have taken and left, the place from where we come, our frustrations of kids, which sometimes we wanted to be and we did not animate ourselves or they did not let to us be, the frustrations of our parents who still weigh on us. Really, the history of our own life. That history is in the root of which we are, therefore to remove or to interpret our objectives from our same history, could not never be something other people's to us. And perhaps we find there what really we want forwards, towards the future.

To watch to us but in history, in our history, to count it like a film and to remove there from what we need, the direction that we looked for, the future that we yearned for but without knowing it. It is obvious to mention that this is simply a way indication, each one must take the best thing than it sees and follow it. In the future, far but closely together, is there what we wished. Wattles knew it, and thus he wrote it.

Why this error of concepts appears, in which what seems to be the opposed thing is not really the opposite thing?

It is produce by the facti that the poverty does not exist, in a practical sense. The wealth yes. One cannot have poverty, is something intangible, is a quality, is not an object. Nevertheless the wealth is an object, is measurable, quantifiable, it is measured in dollars or houses or cars or in... There are many forms to measure the wealth actually. The poverty is simply a quality, the one of not reaching to cover the basic necessities with feeding, house, clothes, education and others.

And what are the consequences of this fundamental difference?

Beacuase the poverty, being a quality or a condition, has much better press than the wealth. To the poor men in some countries everything is allowed, including the crime, by its own condition of poor men. The rich ones are punished in any case, considering them bad people by the only fact of being rich, persecuting them in different forms, in almost all the countries. And are crime suspicions or Mafia organized is believed like origin of its fortune.

And what other consequences exist?

They are many. There are governments that opress the masses with the pretext to defend the poor men, and other governments who tolerate crimes or foment them with the pretext of defending the freedom of people. Those that say to defend the poor men make them poorer, whereas those who say to defend the freedom, still put below all the liberties the freedom of commerce, confusing the population.

What we would have to change?

Only our mind. If a rich one made fortune with legal means and their own capacity, is worthy of admiration, emulation and respect. If a rich one made its fortune with no legal means, he is gangster like those which robs to eat. We have to make an agreement in the society in what is crime is crime, and criminals are criminals no matter if are rich or poor. Of course the poor man can have excuses in front of a judge, but it does not stop being a delinquent. When the entire world understands this law, will be more rich people and and less poor ones.

Without question, I'm convinced we attract all things into our
existence good or bad. At this particular moment, that's probably a tough pill
to get down, but I'm certain it's the truth. Things are drawn to you by
the pictures that your mind fixates upon. The most recent thinking
habits pertaining to how you perceive yourself, money, abilities, and how
you live life are deep patterns. This is what most psychological
experts have referred to as programming.

This programming is tucked away within your subconscious mind and it
dictates your behavior on a daily basis. These programs, or paradigms,
came from outside sources and we often accept them without question.
Frequently, our paradigm is filled with lack and limitation because a
parent, instructor, coach, or another person we respected sought to protect
us from disappointment.

These individuals might have expressed words like "don't expect too
much," "life is hard," and loads of other negative comments. When you
finally accept their flawed thinking, they begin to dictate your behavior
and hamper your ability to draw abundance and prosperity into every
area of your life. It really comes down to the fact that you always
attract what you're feeling and what thoughts you saturate your mind with!

The wisest of individuals as far back as ancient Babylon were aware of
the secret law of attraction. It is vitally important to take
responsibility for our thoughts while policing them regularly! To start, I
recommend avoiding television, newspapers, and radio since they are
regularly filled with bad images, fear promoting exclusives, and upsetting
language that is fed to us daily. Buying into this does not propagate
independent, constructive thinking that is necessary to acquire great riches
and optimal health.

Like attracts like, specifically when we are referring to thought. You
become and attract what you think and feel most often, like a magnet.
Thoughts send out magnetic signals that are continuously drawing a
parallel back to you. The most amazing feature concerning
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The law of attraction, in turn, will respond by drawing more things
into your life that generate those positive emotions you've chosen to
feel!

Thoughts can unquestionably heal, but they can also cause sickness and
disease. Stress, which could be defined as negative thoughts, causes
the internal environment of the human body to become acidic, thus setting
the stage for illness and disease. These negative thoughts may
manifest as conscious or unconscious in origin. Several negative thoughts are
trapped in stressful or traumatic incidences from our past.

Always feel and envision yourself doing well in no-stress situations.
Consistently focus on prosperity and optimal health daily and it will be
drawn to you! Don't allow yourself to focus or talk about sickness or
not having enough money. The idea of coincidence is a joke. We live in
an orderly universe and there is no coincidence. People that always
speak of their troubles create more of the same. Remember to think, speak,
and visualize from the end and be grateful that vibrant health and
financial abundance is already yours, even prior to it physically
appearing. The old proverb states, "ask in faith, knowing it is given unto
you!"

We live in a universe built upon law and order so I'm not one to
believe in coincidence or mere accidents. Coincidence is really attractor
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a more enlightened on, this will become clear to you. We accept or push
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It is the fear of progress, leave happiness today. It is as if they were going to be punished by ambitious, and the universe will punish his ambition stripping what they want more than money.

I told my friend that this trauma actually exists in many people. Many of us do not want to progress faster or not we want to make progress at all because we are afraid of losing what we have, it seems to us very much. We believe that if we get rich by a coup, for example, we would bring bad luck and we could lose our family or our friends. And so we are satisfied, not risk, and try to improve a little, a very little without the Universe realize.

It is a defense mechanism of nature, while we are well, best dont innovate, dont change.

But it is a trap, an absurd  trap. Particularly because it means accepting the fear, adopt our own fear as a matter of course, who lives with us all the time. And that fear is going to finish winning our soul and seizing us. That fear will make us to progress increasingly slow, slower, to stop. And then there is no way out. No way.

The future and wealth are made for us. For whom instead? And that future we need to take, the way you want. First, we must dispel the fear of our minds, and then take in the future. As Wattles said, there is nothing good to be poor or have a modest life. If so were true, all the poor would be happy, and they are not. Poverty is not a good thing, is a sorry state that does not help us at all. And the middle class only increases the frustration of the people. Nobody can fully develop if it does not have everything that want, everything you need to show all your human qualities. Nobody can be happy in mediocrity.

And the security that we believe to have, in a shot could disappear. So we have to take our future, clean our minds of fear, and be free from fear that causes us forward. Only then can we quickly get everything we want and be truly happy.

Es el miedo al progreso, a dejar la felicidad actual. Es como si fueran a ser castigados por ambiciosos, y el universo les castigara su ambición quitándoles algo que quieren más que al dinero.

Yo le dije a mi amiga que ese trauma efectivamente existe en mucha gente. Muchos de nosotros no queremos progresar más rápido o no queremos progresar en absoluto por que tenemos miedo a perder lo que tenemos, que nos parece que es mucho. Pensamos que si nos volvierámos ricos de golpe, por ejemplo, eso nos traería mala suerte y podríamos perder nuestra familia o nuestros amigos. Y así nos conformamos, no arriesgamos, y tratamos de mejorar de a poco, muy de a poco, sin que el Universo se de cuenta.

Es un mecanismo de defensa de la naturaleza, Mientras estemos bien, mejor no innovar, no cambiar.

Pero es una trampa, una absurda trampa. Especialmente por que esto significa aceptar el miedo, aprobar nuestro propio miedo como algo natural, que vive con nosotros todo el tiempo. Y ese miedo se va a terminar ganando nuestra alma, va a terminar apoderándose de nosotros. Ese miedo nos va a hacer avanzar cada vez más lento, más lento, hasta detenernos. Y luego no hay salida. No hay manera.

El futuro y la riqueza están hechos para nosotros. Para quién sino? Y ese futuro tenemos que tomarlo, de la forma que lo deseamos. Primero debemos despejar el miedo de nuestra mente, y luego apoderarnos del futuro. Como dice Wattles, nada hay de bueno en ser pobre o tener una vida modesta. Si asi fuera todos los pobres serían felices, y no lo son. La pobreza no es algo bueno, es un estado lamentable que no nos ayuda para nada. Y la clase media tampoco, solamente aumenta la frustración de las personas. Nadie puede desarrollarse por completo si no tiene todo lo que desea, todo lo que necesita para manifestar todas sus cualidades humanas. Nadie puede ser feliz en la mediocridad.

Y la seguridad que creemos tener, en el momento menos pensado desaparece. Asi que tomemos el futuro como nuestro, despejemos nuestra mente del miedo, y seamos libres del temor que nos causa avanzar. Solo así podremos, rápidamente, conseguir todo lo que deseamos y ser verdaderamente felices. Y siempre con alegría.

Besides being quite presumptuous, since there is the slightest way of knowing how Rockefeller made his fortune in his intimate brain, it seems to me completely nonsensical award all these fortunes to a certain way of thinking. And if the holders of such fortunes were a secret inviolate mysteriously conveyed to them, we can hardly check.

Care, I am not saying that coincidentally may have reason not to a great extent, because there is no way to prove it. But presuming it to sell books or movies I think excessive marketing. Of course, in addition to this statement stained with a conspiratorial component, as they suggest that all these wealthy individuals shared the same secret that was passed them all so dark and underground.

It is useless to mention that all this is impossible to prove. But that would be the lesser of two evils. The downside is that it puts them at a level of presumtion that makes intelligent people unbelieve immediately of his theories, ignoring its positive elements. In other words, well-intentioned people who are exposed to this level of exaggeration were horrified by its sharp smell of cheap marketing.
At least that's what I think.

Meanwhile another blog visitor replied, very shortly, what would happen if a family member requires urgent surgical operation that cost $ 40,000 and would not... It goes without saying that the violent situation, and given that things are real that occur every day, there is no need to exaggerate the point. We have all seen instances of the sort.

Of course fine words are very poetic and very pleasant to hear, but faced with the reality of our world today, it is impossible not to see the need to have money, to dispose of assets. Anyone can put themselves in the place of people who are not served with the technology that would be necessary to save their lives, simply because they do not have money or property to transform into money.

It is at this point where all romanticismos disappear and one despairs, even reneging on its luck and god, it is impossible and frustration that this generates.

So we need to be rich, have a lot of money, so that money is not just a problem in our lives. SIf we have enough and more than enough, then the poem may actually be a poem, dreams can be dreams, because nothing is going to be stained the color of the need. There actually may be actually the words of this person that the greatest wealth are feeling. Cuando tienes el dinero resuelto claro. When you have the money solved, of course.